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Grayrider7
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Joined: 26 Dec 2004
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Location: Cohocton,NY
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 Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2004 11:36 am Post subject: Sharing Wife |
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My wife is willing to dress hot and flirt while we are out, but says she can never share. She will dance with other men and does this all for my fantasy(she says). She is 50 and extremely attractive to most men. We have been married for 2 years, and before that she was single for 30 years. She loves sex, enjoys flirting and attention, and says she has had over 100 partners before me as she gets bored. She says she knows I want to share her, but says she loves me and thinks its morally wrong.
When we are intimate, she talks about her and other men. Also, she has said that men hit on her regularly at work, but she knows not to give them the wrong idea
A few times when we have gone out she has dressed hot and even suggested going in bars separately so men would notice her. She still maintains she can’t do further. Will she change and How can I make her desire other men too?
Sincerely,
Dave |
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MarriedMom
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Joined: 08 Nov 2004
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| Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2004 2:36 pm Post subject: Re: Sharing Wife |
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| Grayrider7 wrote: |
| She says she knows I want to share her, but says she loves me and thinks its morally wrong. |
Well, this pretty much sums it up. She may have been very sexual physically before you were married, and she may enjoy getting a rise out of you with the whole fantasy of her being with another man, but once you slipped that ring on her finger, that was it for her. I'm assuming anyway. If she went that long without being married, and then decided to marry you and give up her lifestyle, then she must really be adamant about the fact that she only wants to share herself sexually with YOU.
My husband has also mentioned something along the lines of having a fantasy about seeing me getting boned by another man, but he knows better than to ask. He knows that I feel that sharing myself in such an intimate way with another man makes it less of a special thing with him if I'm so willing to give it up to just anyone. I'm guessing that in her past, she was giving herself up to men for an entirely different reason than why she gives herself to you now. And for her to go out and have sex with some other schmo, well, that's like an emotional downgrade.
Just my opinion. Who knows, she may get bored and try it out... but I don't know how good that would be for your marriage if that were the case.
MM |
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bowlan
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Joined: 28 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 11:22 pm Post subject: Re: Sharing Wife |
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| MarriedMom wrote: |
| Grayrider7 wrote: |
| She says she knows I want to share her, but says she loves me and thinks its morally wrong. |
Well, this pretty much sums it up. She may have been very sexual physically before you were married, and she may enjoy getting a rise out of you with the whole fantasy of her being with another man, but once you slipped that ring on her finger, that was it for her. I'm assuming anyway. If she went that long without being married, and then decided to marry you and give up her lifestyle, then she must really be adamant about the fact that she only wants to share herself sexually with YOU.
My husband has also mentioned something along the lines of having a fantasy about seeing me getting boned by another man, but he knows better than to ask. He knows that I feel that sharing myself in such an intimate way with another man makes it less of a special thing with him if I'm so willing to give it up to just anyone. I'm guessing that in her past, she was giving herself up to men for an entirely different reason than why she gives herself to you now. And for her to go out and have sex with some other schmo, well, that's like an emotional downgrade.
Just my opinion. Who knows, she may get bored and try it out... but I don't know how good that would be for your marriage if that were the case.
MM |
pale your number 101 go on share her and loose her. she wants to go to bars by her self, sounds like shes doing a little trolling on her own.is work the only think on her list of activities at her job.sound like sterm ruger gun factory here in town were marred and single women get jobs in order to have fun. on a average 4 people per,month are fired for having sex in the parking lot,in a tool room or were ever the dumb f-s think they will get away with it. |
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texasmomfive
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Joined: 08 Mar 2005
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| Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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| MM, you have really good insight to these kinds of things. I am impressed. I agree with you 100 on this. |
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bowlan
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Joined: 28 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 12:52 am Post subject: |
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| texasmomfive wrote: |
| MM, you have really good insight to these kinds of things. I am impressed. I agree with you 100 on this. |
thank you.
have training in this kind of thing scored highest in the class,100% on 300 test subjects.
its not all that hard to use reverse cytology on finding the truth.
my nabor has been marred for 13 years,his wife works at ruger fire arms and has been playing the game for two years.i tried to warn him as to what would happen when his wife started working there with over 300 men,but he wouldent listen.the first signs were obvious she was going into work at 5am when the hours were at 6am next was the every saterday trips to her mothers with a change of close and getting home at 11 or 12pm then there was the sleeping by her self using the watching late night tv i knew but kept quite by the way i live one house up from them,i rent of her hustband that is how i know.
well two weeks ago maby he figured it out or maybe some one working with her said some thing to him.
lets say there were some changes made. |
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Anubis
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Guest00
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Raymond-Bergman
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Location: YorkShire England
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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Brings a whole new meaning to the comedy phrase
"Take my wife"
** Gets coat |
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Aiken
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| I guess she just feels too loyal to you, although she doesn't mind saying really dirty things. |
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Marlboro
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 7:53 pm Post subject: |
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| I guess i am too young to understand, but why would i guy want to share his woman? |
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bowlan
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 7:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Marlboro wrote: |
| I guess i am too young to understand, but why would i guy want to share his woman? |
your not to young to understand.
people who do that have no morals.
first word to come to mind would be twisted,unballensed,ect. |
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Avocat
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 9:28 pm Post subject: Sharing is healthy |
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Marboro and Bolan, grow up and get a perspective.
Sexuality is highly individualistic. To each his/her own I say.
I find the thought of sharing my wife very erotic. I am completely comfortable with her love for me. She is beautiful and I would love to see her being penetrated by anohter man. I do not love her less. I love her more.
It takes a very indepth relationship to accept sharing. It takes a health sexual perspective--that sex is beautiful, that you have a relationship that transcends physical sex.
See the movie Absolute Power with Clint Eastwood. The elder gentlemen certainly loved his young wife. He couldn't satisfy her. So, she pleased him by performing.
Try being open minded. |
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bowlan
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 9:34 pm Post subject: Re: Sharing is healthy |
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| Avocat wrote: |
Marboro and Bolan, grow up and get a perspective.
Sexuality is highly individualistic. To each his/her own I say.
I find the thought of sharing my wife very erotic. I am completely comfortable with her love for me. She is beautiful and I would love to see her being penetrated by anohter man. I do not love her less. I love her more.
It takes a very indepth relationship to accept sharing. It takes a health sexual perspective--that sex is beautiful, that you have a relationship that transcends physical sex.
See the movie Absolute Power with Clint Eastwood. The elder gentlemen certainly loved his young wife. He couldn't satisfy her. So, she pleased him by performing.
Try being open minded. |
ok,
i have ten inches and can go non stop for 8 hours,care to share your wife with me? |
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mercuri
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Joined: 09 Mar 2005
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Location: USA
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 10:25 pm Post subject: wife sharing |
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| I am a married woman, hubby and I have been togeather for 10 years and our sex life is great. He recently brought up the idea of sharing me and while I was intially floored by the idea it also really tuirned me on. We started this discussion out of bed and in no time at all we were in bed. It is something that we intend to do. Not because we are immoral but because we are both into it. The thought of a new partner turns me on and my hubby watching...I better call him. We also intend to take it to the next level....I want to share him. we are both secure enough to seperate sex from love and as a couple we are strong enough to set limits and stick to them. |
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bowlan
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| Posted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 10:32 pm Post subject: Re: wife sharing |
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| mercuri wrote: |
| I am a married woman, hubby and I have been togeather for 10 years and our sex life is great. He recently brought up the idea of sharing me and while I was intially floored by the idea it also really tuirned me on. We started this discussion out of bed and in no time at all we were in bed. It is something that we intend to do. Not because we are immoral but because we are both into it. The thought of a new partner turns me on and my hubby watching...I better call him. We also intend to take it to the next level....I want to share him. we are both secure enough to seperate sex from love and as a couple we are strong enough to set limits and stick to them. |
that still doesn't answer my question. |
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