are second cousins ok to have sex with?

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Fri Sep 09, 2005 4:46 pm

Joe77 wrote:I have a second cousin I'd love to nail the S*** out of-but I won't! I think it's a little weird even though genetically your second cousin doesn't really share many more genes than a non-relative.


Your choice mate (seems a waste), but it's not illegal.

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Fri Sep 09, 2005 4:47 pm

Joe77 wrote:I have a second cousin I'd love to nail the S*** out of-but I won't! I think it's a little weird even though genetically your second cousin doesn't really share many more genes than a non-relative.


Your choice mate (seems a waste), but it's not illegal.

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Postby Jasy on Sat Sep 10, 2005 7:13 pm

I met my second cousin for the first time 6 months ago. Before that I didnt even know she existed! Now she adores me and all I want is to nail her good. I am certain I can if I tried.
One of these days I'll post back with mission accomplished :twisted:

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Postby kygirl1013 on Fri Sep 16, 2005 4:43 am

I just ran across this and want to put in my 2 cents it is not legal to marry your cousin in over half the states in the us. and in ky it is not legal to marry your first or second cousin. I am not sure about other states :D

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Postby kygirl1013 on Fri Sep 16, 2005 4:51 am

I just do not understand!! There are sooo many other people in this world why on earth would you want to have relations with a relative...why would you want to put that shame on your family. You need to go to a bar and pick someone up not a family dinner. It is just wrong

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Postby SkeeLo on Fri Sep 16, 2005 8:57 am

vivian wrote:If they are good looking, then go for it. I dont recommend shagging your real brother or sister cos the kid could come out a bit spasticated. So always use a condom.

GOOD LUCK


ROFLMFAO.... Nice sense of humour :lol:

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Fri Sep 16, 2005 9:30 am

kygirl1013 wrote:I just ran across this and want to put in my 2 cents it is not legal to marry your cousin in over half the states in the us. and in ky it is not legal to marry your first or second cousin. I am not sure about other states :D


Not true, first cousin is prohibited, second cousin is allowed. KY is unusual in that it will not recognise a valid marriage in another state if it does not conform to it's view of cousin marriage.

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Postby kygirl1013 on Fri Sep 23, 2005 5:48 am

ky law defines that second cousins are more properly know as first cousins once removed. so therefore they are refered to as first cousin in all aspect of the law. I know that this sounds crazy but read KRS 402.010. the short of it is that what we call a first cousin the ky law says that is just a cousin or a full cousin what we call a 2nd cousin ky law says it is first cousin or first cousin once removed. In some places like kycabinet for health and family services they use the terms first and second cousins (not promitted to marry) because this is how normal people refer to them.
You know all of this is really usless the reality is that it is wrong to have relations with you family members.

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Fri Sep 23, 2005 10:06 am

Just to get this right a second cousin is a great grandchild of your great grandparents where none of their grandparents are the same as any of yours.

A first cousin once removed is the child of your cousin (completely different).

Regarding Ky

"No marriage shall be contracted between persons who are nearer of kin to each other by consanguinity, whether of the whole or half-blood, than second cousins." This only includes people NEARER than second cousins.

See also:

Marriage between cousins

Marriage between first cousins is prohibited by KRS 402.010. There are no exceptions to the prohibition and such a marriage is incestuous and void. See Ex parte Bowen, Ky., 247 S.W.2d 379 (1952) and OAG 80-300.

Kentucky does not recognize such a marriage between first cousins even if it is consummated in another state. In Dannelli v. Dannelli's Adm'r., 4 Bush 51 (67 Ky. Rep. 51) (1868), the court said that in Kentucky it is the settled law that a marriage valid in the country where celebrated is to be held valid in other countries where the parties may be domiciled, although it would have been invalid by the law of the subsequent domicile if it had been originally celebrated there. However, polygamous and incestuous marriages are exceptions to the rule since such marriages are contrary to the law of nature and are subversive of the good order of society. Thus public policy prohibits even the recognition of a marriage between first cousins in Kentucky even though it may be legal elsewhere.

In connection with the term “cousin” the court said in part in Culver v. Union & New Haven Trust Co., Conn., 179 A. 487, 489 (1935), as follows:

Primarily and specifically the term “cousin,” without more, means the son or daughter of one's uncle or aunt (called more fully own, first, or full cousin, or cousin-german). In its usual and ordinary acceptation it does not connote second or third cousins. The children of first cousins are second cousins to each other; the children of one's first cousins are sometimes popularly called his second cousins, but are more properly, his “first cousins once removed.”

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Postby flatchest on Sat Sep 24, 2005 12:53 am

Nothing wrong with inbreeding, look at the bright side, that's one less Christmas present you have to buy
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Postby Guest on Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:44 pm

i really think that it is nasty to date...or have sex...with a second cousin. and for all the people that are doing their second cousin.....i hope you have screwed up babies....like you sara shelton and robbie fields.....nice going leaving keyelee for your second cousin. and i also think it is stupid as hell to cheat on your girl with your second cousin and all who disagree with me.......F*** you!!!! :D

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Postby donna31 on Sat Sep 06, 2008 6:26 am

depends on how cute they are
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