kids are fantastic - i have 2x both girls & the grandkids are even better - 3x - all girls with another due end August.
Certainly makes the purpose of life very clear & worthwhile - but obviously not for everyone - there some real miserable people out there who just plain hate kids
Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 4:20 pm Post subject: Re: anyone NOT want children?
it's not for me wrote:
Are there any women (or indeed men) on here who actually hate the idea of having children? The idea of being pregnant repulses me, but the idea of having a child of my own repulses me even more. I'm nearly 30 and don't really feel as though I fit in with my friends. I would love to get married, but I'm worried that I will put guys off when I tell them I don't want and will never want kids.
Don't worry about it, not all guys want kids. Go for a man who has a good, stable job. Usually their the guys who don't want kids because they love to work and don't like the thought of that being ruined.
I dont mind children. People go on and on about how difficult they would be to raise, but thats only true if they have your phone number. If they dont have any way of getting in contact with you, then it really shouldnt be any problem.