teacher getting humiliating erections

by **badteacher** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:59 pm

Hi I have a really bad problem as I think it could threaten my career. I have just graduated from uni and I am doing teacher training in a Girls' High School. I think I could be a good teacher and I really enjoy teaching but some of the older girl students are really attractive. I don't have a girlfriend (in fact I haven't had sex for almost a year because I've been concentrating on studying and I'm very shy) and some of the students dress fairly provocatively and flirt a lot with me. I try to hide my 'excitement' by sitting down or keeping turned away from them until it goes down but I often hear them giggling and I think they are aware of it and doing it deliberately. These girls are walking all over me but I'm worried about disciplining them in case they report me. What can I do?

by **Guest** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:24 pm

You're not there to allow the girls to flirt with you so maybe you need to change your teaching style and be more of a figure of authority rather than trying to be their friend! Sometimes it helps to go in strict at first and relax a little once the children know not to mess with you and you feel confident with your classroom management skills. Of course you can discipline your pupils, you have every right to!
Maybe teaching is for you, but just not right now or you should consider teaching a younger age range? Maybe you need to take a year out between your teacher training and actually looking for a teaching post, gain some life experience and begin again with a more mature outlook on life?

Good luck.

by **Guest** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:46 pm

Wear a long suit or jacket to make sure that area is covered. When it happens think of something really off putting like your grandad naked. And as said don't be their friend at first

by **badteacher** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:58 pm

What I'm really worried about is that I'm sure these girls have seen that I'm getting erections already. Do you think they'll just forget about it or tell other students or even maybe teachers if they decide they don't like me?

by **Guest** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 5:06 pm

badteacher wrote:What I'm really worried about is that I'm sure these girls have seen that I'm getting erections already. Do you think they'll just forget about it or tell other students or even maybe teachers if they decide they don't like me?

You're there to teach - if the children like you, thats a bonus! If they don't then tough, you have a job to do and they at least need to respect that. Surely being worried about them telling the teachers should be enough to stop an erection!!!!! There is nothing you can do about what they may have seen before, just start as you mean to go on. If you dont think you can handle being at that school then maybe you need a fresh start in a new school. You are the adult in this situation and it is up to you to deal with it in a mature manner.

by **Sid Spunkstain** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 10:59 pm

badteacher wrote:Hi I have a really bad problem as I think it could threaten my career. I have just graduated from uni and I am doing teacher training in a Girls' High School. I think I could be a good teacher and I really enjoy teaching but some of the older girl students are really attractive. I don't have a girlfriend (in fact I haven't had sex for almost a year because I've been concentrating on studying and I'm very shy) and some of the students dress fairly provocatively and flirt a lot with me. I try to hide my 'excitement' by sitting down or keeping turned away from them until it goes down but I often hear them giggling and I think they are aware of it and doing it deliberately. These girls are walking all over me but I'm worried about disciplining them in case they report me. What can I do?

wat a load of S***

by **Guest** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 11:52 pm

badteacher wrote:What I'm really worried about is that I'm sure these girls have seen that I'm getting erections already. Do you think they'll just forget about it or tell other students or even maybe teachers if they decide they don't like me?

I really am reluctant to advise men to teach at all. College age maybe. Men are too weak sexually to not give in to temptation. I wouldn't go for a younger age group either. What age are we talking about? High school students? If you go to junior high you'll find the girls much younger yet still developing. And some develope very quickly. I suggest an all boys school.

by **Guest** on Sun Jan 06, 2008 11:55 pm

. wrote:
badteacher wrote:What I'm really worried about is that I'm sure these girls have seen that I'm getting erections already. Do you think they'll just forget about it or tell other students or even maybe teachers if they decide they don't like me?

I really am reluctant to advise men to teach at all. College age maybe. Men are too weak sexually to not give in to temptation. I wouldn't go for a younger age group either. What age are we talking about? High school students? If you go to junior high you'll find the girls much younger yet still developing. And some develope very quickly. I suggest an all boys school.

Oh, and by the way, if they HAVE seen your erections - everyone will know about it. girls talk. Eventually a girl will tell a parent or another teacher. The parent - if it were me - would be at the school talking to the principal so fast your head would spin. I do feel bad for you if you really want to teach - but girls are out. You've proven that yourself. Why put yourself in that situation?

by **Guest** on Mon Jan 07, 2008 12:01 am

I was the kind of teenage girl I would have immediately reported it to my mother. MY mother would do nothing. I , however, would ever react and be down at the school. The two posts above are mine, by the way. But I had boys. And once a little girl (somehow) stuck a pencil in my sons hand - and let me tell you how I went up to the school and bitched the principal out in front of other kids teachers etc. I didn't cuss as I knew that could get me in trouble, but I DEMANDED the little b*tch be punished!!!

by **Guest** on Mon Jan 07, 2008 12:03 am

all rubbish in my eyes.

by **Guest** on Mon Jan 07, 2008 12:25 am

. wrote:all rubbish in my eyes.

Maybe you should go to a doctor and get that rubbish removed from your eyes. Doesn't it hurt or feel uncomfortable?

by **mande** on Mon Jan 07, 2008 6:51 am

I worked with a guy, that I found out had taught High School Math, and fooled around a bit with a student.
All consensual, no intercourse.
Anyway, he got arrested, and now he's on the sex offender registry for the rest of his life, and he, his wife, and their kids live with his parents, because nobody will rent to him!

So if this story is true, you need to be very careful
I'd suggest not talking at all to these girls when they start flirting with you, and if they do, get strict, even be a complete asshole if you have to, to get them to stop it.
After that, you're going to have to learn how to control your excitement, that's all.

by **Guest** on Mon Jan 07, 2008 3:13 pm

. wrote: and let me tell you how I went up to the school and bitched the principal out in front of other kids teachers etc. I

Thats disgusting

by **Guest** on Fri Jan 11, 2008 6:28 pm

mande wrote:I worked with a guy, that I found out had taught High School Math, and fooled around a bit with a student.
All consensual, no intercourse.
Anyway, he got arrested, and now he's on the sex offender registry for the rest of his life, and he, his wife, and their kids live with his parents, because nobody will rent to him!

So if this story is true, you need to be very careful
I'd suggest not talking at all to these girls when they start flirting with you, and if they do, get strict, even be a complete asshole if you have to, to get them to stop it.
After that, you're going to have to learn how to control your excitement, that's all.

Yea, when I was in high school a coach supposedly got caught messing around with a student in his van in the parking lot. He disappeared after that and the rumor was rampant, so I'm sure it was true.

by **lovealot** on Mon Jan 14, 2008 2:52 pm

come on guys this kid is not saying he would fool around with any of his students just that they know how to wind him up. Just graduated from uni that could mean that he could be as young as 22 how may lads that age would not be easily wound up by girls aged 16-18. As long as he can control himself there is no threat to his job. Also there would be nothing wrong with moving to teach a younger age group as long as he has the correct qualifications to do it. Most normal young men would not find young developing girls attractive.