how to tell a girl i have no desire for sex?

[Guest]

He wants a woman who should not expect sex or affection, while he enjoys a sex life through masturbating and visual stimulation. He'll pay for food and board while she acts as his girlfriendd. Fair enough is she knows what she's getting in to, but women are wiser than this. He will be used and cuckholded eventually. She'll be out there having the time of her life making him look like a clown, getting free board, food, television and all mod cons. He'll think he has a submissive companion, playing girlfriend, but the reality will be much different. If he wants to turn a blind eye let him.[/quote]


I really hope that not all women are that evil. (that said I haven't met one yet who isn't).

The fact that women do this is disgusting. To take peoples hearts with pure intentions and completely disregard any emotional damage done to the male for meagre material wealth.

Hang your heads in shame.

[Guest]

He wants a woman who should not expect sex or affection, while he enjoys a sex life through masturbating and visual stimulation. He'll pay for food and board while she acts as his girlfriendd. Fair enough is she knows what she's getting in to, but women are wiser than this. He will be used and cuckholded eventually. She'll be out there having the time of her life making him look like a clown, getting free board, food, television and all mod cons. He'll think he has a submissive companion, playing girlfriend, but the reality will be much different. If he wants to turn a blind eye let him.

I really hope that not all women are that evil. (that said I haven't me

t one yet who isn't).

The fact that women do this is disgusting. To take peoples hearts with pure intentions and completely disregard any emotional damage done to the male for meagre material wealth.

Hang your heads in shame.

[Guest]

He wants a woman who should not expect sex or affection, while he enjoys a sex life through masturbating and visual stimulation. He'll pay for food and board while she acts as his girlfriendd. Fair enough is she knows what she's getting in to, but women are wiser than this. He will be used and cuckholded eventually. She'll be out there having the time of her life making him look like a clown, getting free board, food, television and all mod cons. He'll think he has a submissive companion, playing girlfriend, but the reality will be much different. If he wants to turn a blind eye let him.

I really hope that not all women are that evil. (that said I haven't met one yet who isn't).

The fact that women do this is disgusting. To take peoples hearts with pure intentions and completely disregard any emotional damage done to the male for meagre material wealth.

Hang your heads in shame.

[Same guy as above]

In a time where women have equal opportunities to support themselves in a career they still choose to manipulate as well rather than play with an innocent heart.

Shows you how women only think of equal opportunities when they have something to gain. The Arabs have got the right idea to be honest.

I hate and have absolutely no respect women for this reason.

[Guest]

In a time where women have equal opportunities to support themselves in a career they still choose to manipulate as well rather than play with an innocent heart.

Shows you how women only think of equal opportunities when they have something to gain. The Arabs have got the right idea to be honest.

I hate and have absolutely no respect women for this reason.

you aren't going to find a woman this gullible

[Guest]

typical sado masochist, wants a fit woman to keep as a companion, but deprive her of sex and affection, under the tag of "Lover", but not really a lover, just to F*** with her head for his own sick pleasure while he has sex with God?????????????????????

Run for the hills.

Lots of people dont care for sex (even if they masturbate
Theres nothing wrong with not wanting sex as long as you dont expect someone who does to live by your rules - and vice versa.

[Guest]

typical sado masochist, wants a fit woman to keep as a companion, but deprive her of sex and affection, under the tag of "Lover", but not really a lover, just to F*** with her head for his own sick pleasure while he has sex with God?????????????????????

Run for the hills.

Lots of people dont care for sex (even if they masturbate
Theres nothing wrong with not wanting sex as long as you dont expect someone who does to live by your rules - and vice versa.

so true, there's nothing more annoying than being denied sex by some power hungry piglet.

[Guest]

Hang your head in shame sir, hang it on a post to be ridiculed like they did in the French revolution. How could you be so naive! What an embarrassment you are to the male gender.[/quote]


Care to elaborate rather than to sling silly insults with little or no reasoning behind them?


"The very fact that you've admitted you find all women evil, demonstrates your calculated motives for this sexless union."

Did I tell him not to have sex with women? He asked a question about facilitation of a sexless union, therefore I answered it. (if your going to take a shot at the title, better make it a good one).

I do have motives yes. As do we all. In my experience all women I know use sex as a bargaining chip in order to gain material wealth/pleasure from someone without being honest about where they want it to lead. (I still hold hope for the woman that can look beyond that, although it isn't a lot).


Is there supposed to be some deal between men and women where the man provides board,food,protection etc and the woman has sex with him?

What else do we get out of it?

I'm genuinely interested in why there is no balance between provisions supplement and power between the two sexes? We are all aware that one cannot survive without the other right? (don't give me short sighted IVF crap it will destroy your argument about sex being important).

It just doesn't seem healthy. (may also be a form of abuse).


Tbh, I think that women are abusing their liberties given to them by men who could easily just force them into submission with brutal laws/beatings etc (Saudi Arabia). Men allowed these liberties as a sign of respect to womens rights everywhere. When we are not afforded equal signs of respect back (by say, playing on human emotion to gain, using equal rights/sex to gain power over another), it feels like such a betrayal of trust.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that people should be a little less selfish when it comes to something that can hurt others.

Does wantonly acting with disregard for others feelings which you know could be damaged by your actions, make you a good person?


Here is some very nice topics for debate. I would love to talk about these in a mature and rational way. No emotional name calling, just intelligent debate on what flaws there may be in my observations.

I will respect you for it.

[same guy as above]

*added comment*

Instead of working as a team it seems that most women (and some men I expect) are always out for gaining more than they give to the other party.

Is this the correct attitude towards showing someone love and affection?

[Guest]

*added comment*

Instead of working as a team it seems that most women (and some men I expect) are always out for gaining more than they give to the other party.

Is this the correct attitude towards showing someone love and affection?

well that's how most relationships work, its give and take and finding attunement with one another. Learning to compromise, there has to be a balance. The OP is wanting a woman who will meet him on his terms, where he thinks he's setting the terms, he'll only find a woman who will turn the tables on him and exploit him. Good luck. This isn't because women are coniving or contrived. They may start out with the intention of being faithful, but like everyone else, they soon get bored.

[Guest]

"The OP is wanting a woman who will meet him on his terms, where he thinks he's setting the terms, he'll only find a woman who will turn the tables on him and exploit him. Good luck. This isn't because women are coniving or contrived. They may start out with the intention of being faithful, but like everyone else, they soon get bored."

If he is getting his needs satisfied by her, how is she turning the tables/exploiting him? Once again you talk as if all women are going to get bored if they don't have sex. This reveals a lot about yourself.

It doesn't really add up. Your placing him in a relationship with a woman he would be unlikely to get into a relationship with anyway.


Does anyone see the problem here that if we bore you, you will exploit and abuse, then leave us?

By your logic we are mere performers (not partners) here for your amusement only.

You see the clear misaligned logic here? Here I believe is the source of evil in this debate.

[Guest]

"The OP is wanting a woman who will meet him on his terms, where he thinks he's setting the terms, he'll only find a woman who will turn the tables on him and exploit him. Good luck. This isn't because women are coniving or contrived. They may start out with the intention of being faithful, but like everyone else, they soon get bored."

If he is getting his needs satisfied by her, how is she turning the tables/exploiting him? Once again you talk as if all women are going to get bored if they don't have sex. This reveals a lot about yourself.

It doesn't really add up. Your placing him in a relationship with a woman he would be unlikely to get into a relationship with anyway.


Does anyone see the problem here that if we bore you, you will exploit and abuse, then leave us?

By your logic we are mere performers (not partners) here for your amusement only.

You see the clear misaligned logic here? Here I believe is the source of evil in this debate.

It doesn't imply this at all. If you put an advert out in the local post office which read;

WANTED
- Woman wanted to be a full time girlfriend
- Will pay for free Food and Board
- A sexual relationship because I want to W*** off to porn

You will get an influx of con women phoning up to take advantage of you. Where were you thinking of placing the ad, or are you asking about your local?

[Verve]

can you guys use a name to keep track .......

[horioz]

[/quote]
WANTED
- Woman wanted to be a full time girlfriend
- Will pay for free Food and Board
- A sexual relationship because I want to W*** off to porn

You will get an influx of con women phoning up to take advantage of you. Where were you thinking of placing the ad, or are you asking about your local?[/quote]


Your assuming that he will pay for food and board. Shouldn't the cost be shared between the two partners, so that she doesn't become just another possesion?

Your idea of how relationships work is messed up (so is mine probably but its more ethical than yours). Women are not just something you buy by giving them stuff so they will sleep with you.

The relationship should be based on an emotional connection between two people (notice people, no connotations towards any gender). These two people should support each others needs in every way that they can.

What I am trying to describe is love. What you are describing is prostitution.

If you put an advert in the paper it looks more like a "for sale". (associating them with a material posession).

(to Verve, hopefully you can tell who it is by the language patterns that we use by now, but here you go anyway ).

[Guest]

how else he thinking of attracting a potential slave? Is he going to do it word of mouth, ask around his local bar or approach random strangers on the streets?