Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 11:48 am Post subject: Scorpio man V Aries women
Hi all, I'm a scorpio man with an aries woman. trust, honour and loyalty no matter what and understanding that looking for perfection just gets in the way of life. It does not exist, never has. Here is a great thought from a grandmother in the film parenthood. ' Relationships can be like a merry-go-round, round and round you go' nice and safe nothing wrong with that for others. 'Or like a roller coaster up and down, round and round making you scream and shout with fear and joy, great fun for some. Our relationship has been the roller coaster and I would not change it for anything, thats what's made our relationship what it is today after nearly thirty years!
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 8:52 pm Post subject: Re: Scorpio man V Aries women
PeterParker wrote:
Hi all, I'm a scorpio man with an aries woman. trust, honour and loyalty no matter what and understanding that looking for perfection just gets in the way of life. It does not exist, never has. Here is a great thought from a grandmother in the film parenthood. ' Relationships can be like a merry-go-round, round and round you go' nice and safe nothing wrong with that for others. 'Or like a roller coaster up and down, round and round making you scream and shout with fear and joy, great fun for some. Our relationship has been the roller coaster and I would not change it for anything, thats what's made our relationship what it is today after nearly thirty years!
30 years? Wow. That's beautiful. You gave a great example of the experience.
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:07 am Post subject: Re: Aries and Scorpio Relationship
ZiaAries wrote:
arlamb wrote:
Hello! I am an Aries female, and I am dating a Scorpio male. We've been together for 2 years and we are going through the exact problem! Neither of us want to change, because neither of us feel we are in the wrong.
Coming from an Aries point of view, we are usually pretty quick to forgive and forget, so I'm not sure exactly what you said to her, but whatever it was, probably hurt her feelings pretty badly if she's still not talking to you. As mean as we can be, we are very easily hurt.
So here's my suggestion: If you want a quick fix, remember, Aries women live in a fantasy world. We love knights in shining armor and romantic scenes that end in sappy music. If you hurt her, sweep her off her feet, don't get mushy, and make sure you mean it, but do something with style that will make us blush and forget all about the problem. I tell my boyfriend constantly, if I'm upset, and I'm just pouting, you'll be able to solve the situation with a hug and a kiss and some baby talk rather than arguing or getting pissed yourself.
If you want to fix the problem in the long haul, I suggest sitting down, (once everyone has calmed down) and talking things out. Get down to the core of the problems. Usually, with Aries women, the core of the problems come down to respect. Which might seem simple to some, but respect comes in all sorts of forms to an Aries. We feel "disrespected" if you embarrass us in public, forget to call us when you're out, and even when you don't pay a bill on time. Anytime you mess up, we feel it's a personal attack on us, not because we're selfish, but because love is equal sharing to us, and we're trying our hardest to please you, so you should do the same for us.
I hope this helped, I'm sorry us Aries are crazy, but just show her you love her. Don't "give her space," because we'll take it the wrong way. As soon as yall are in a fight, fix it then, and she'll forget it about it by the next morning after the make up sex. I love you Scorpio men, never a dull moment!
I've never read a more accurate post as to the way I see things. NO, I didn't write it either but I wish I knew who did.
ditto I am an Aries women, although I never fought with my Scorpio man at the time, If only my Libra man now would do the above, it is so simple to keep an Aries women happy... but most people have to make it all complicated
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: Re: aries and SCORPIO MAN
nadiaAries wrote:
Guys! I am an Aries woman and in love with the Scrpio man for last 2 years,the same thing and i am facing the same situation .Just 3 days back we took up this stupid argument ;we were watching a movie and he sleapt thru it ;i got upset becuse i wanted him to watch this mvie with me . In the fury I swictched off the tv and wnt into the bedroom fuming ,we had a silly argument ,but still he got up and switched on the TV and watched the whole movie without talking to me and since then he did not call me ,I tried call and he responded but then same Aries ego"Why should I call" and its the 4th day today neither he has called and nor am i calling but I am dying to talk to him and hug him and nearly 20 times in day i check my phone ,I am just thinking "What must be his state of mind ,Is he also missing me or is it just ok with him " He loves me a lot and I know that but we both are very egoistic . Can any body help!
If you really love him? then one of you has to be the bigger person and call a truce, he might want you to say "no baby don't leave" to stroke his male ego.. as Aries we are very strong and can intimidate some men.. men need to feel loved and wanted to, they are very ego driven...
Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 11:18 am Post subject: Re: aries and SCORPIO MAN
nadiaAries wrote:
Guys! I am an Aries woman and in love with the Scrpio man for last 2 years,the same thing and i am facing the same situation .Just 3 days back we took up this stupid argument ;we were watching a movie and he sleapt thru it ;i got upset becuse i wanted him to watch this mvie with me . In the fury I swictched off the tv and wnt into the bedroom fuming ,we had a silly argument ,but still he got up and switched on the TV and watched the whole movie without talking to me and since then he did not call me ,I tried call and he responded but then same Aries ego"Why should I call" and its the 4th day today neither he has called and nor am i calling but I am dying to talk to him and hug him and nearly 20 times in day i check my phone ,I am just thinking "What must be his state of mind ,Is he also missing me or is it just ok with him " He loves me a lot and I know that but we both are very egoistic . Can any body help!
no offence but taking it personally because he fell asleep during a film is a prime example of one of the things you shouldn't get upset about... watch the film stroke his hair while he sleeps, I'm sure ppl don't fall asleep on purpose during films... if you got upset about this trivial unimportant thing, maybe you should think about what is really causing the problem..how many other trivial unimportant things do you ride his balls about?? maybe that is why he is not speaking to you?? you have to decide what is worth fighting about... and trivial things are not worth losing someone over... people are going to have quirks and they do not do these things to annoy you it is just who they are, you have to either decide can you love them for who they are or not... I have never understood people who get upset about toilet seats, and toothpaste.. when there are so much more important things to worry about than triviality...
i am an aries woman married to a scorpio guy, i can tell you it's not pretty. there are days when you are just so fed up with the arguing coz both parties wont back down.
the thing that bothers me the most is scorpio's secretive nature. i hate secrets. better he shares them with me than me finding out in some form or another. i don't know about other aries girls but it bothers me a lot. my trust for that person slowly fades coz of secrets. and when they are busted, they deny it too which is so infuriating! they wont say sorry, they'll pretend it didnt happen.
advice for that i think is: take time to talk to each other, aries women can be forgiving if honesty and sincerity is in play.
I don't know who is who anymore. i'm a Scorpio woman who is dating an Aries man. I [i]feel[/i] him bossy, impatient and sarcastic....I feel attracted by him for his thristy of power and leadership...I don't believe in zodiac signs (astrology only gives you some traits/ideas & its up to you how to deal & cope) because people have their unique personality and traits...just to share I'm a different scorpio than what the astrology/zodiac is telling you. My life is full of happiness and appreciation. I am a very open minded and respect people decisions...perhaps i'm wrong or right...best description of a scorpio is they're very intuitive, wise, planner, original...blah, blah...blah they take chances and risks to learn about life. they want to see if that is really true. they never forget...painful events. they have lots of patient but enough is enough. Don't mess up with a scorpio..because the other want will get hurt and regret forever...you will never forget a scorpio's eyes. Scorpio doesn't like to waste his/her time because is gold if a scorpio really likes an aries is becase that man/woman has something special...I am very understanding and compassionated woman they are things ican change and cant' so everything depends of you. there are so many things to do in this world. love, peace and happiness.
Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 6:55 pm Post subject: Re: Scorpio man in love with an Aries woman
I am an aries woman involved with a scorpio man for 2 1/2 years. This is the exact same issue that we have because we are both very passionate and oppinonated and neither one of us is into being subbmissive and not the leader. At any point, we can discuss a topic and either have the same opinion or the total opposite and i believe the main reason that we argue is because we want the other to agree with only what we say and nothing else. However, after so long, i have decided to not try to agree but to just understand the opposing point of view. Its impossible for us to see everything the same and niether one of us is willing to be wrong so we just agree to disagree and hear the other persons thoughts and leave it alone. Scorpio is very very INTENSE and as an aries woman i am more passionate so theres alot of pride in the mix. My guy tends to offend me sometimes when i know he doesnt mean to however aries women are very articulate people so words are not used lightly. Scorpios on the other hand, have a hard time successfully expressing themselves so us aries women are like "what"?. The other day my guy and i got into it bcuz his doctor prescribed him medicine that i didnt believe he needed so i wanted to talk to his doctor and find out what the hell was going on. so my guy said "No,let me talk and you just tell me what to say" and i was soo confused. Its like scorpio men love power and a strong woman but likes to still apprear as the king in any situation. Me as an aries woman, i have to be VERY patient and we can aggreed to take turns on the power part.
Hi.
I am a Scorpio man and I have been involved with a very special Aries woman for well over a year now. We have a very intimate bond and I think that we could really offer each other a lot of good things both emotionally and physically. Love and sex, in other words.
The thing is, that both of us have very strong personalities and we are both very opinionated. This is causing the most unpleasant arguments and causing us to be in real trouble and in danger of breaking up for good.
I really don’t want to loose this lady. Does anyone here have any insight about Scorpio man/ Aries woman relationships? I really need help here. I would just call her myself and try to talk things out but I’m afraid of saying something else that will just make her more disappointed with me.
I have certainly been saying all the wrong things to her lately. I have really made her upset and I thought that I was just being honest. What can I do to reassure her that I still care for her and want her?[/quote]
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Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 7:04 pm Post subject: Re: Scorpio man in love with an Aries woman
gbridges wrote:
Hi.
I am a Scorpio man and I have been involved with a very special Aries woman for well over a year now. We have a very intimate bond and I think that we could really offer each other a lot of good things both emotionally and physically. Love and sex, in other words.
The thing is, that both of us have very strong personalities and we are both very opinionated. This is causing the most unpleasant arguments and causing us to be in real trouble and in danger of breaking up for good.
I really don’t want to loose this lady. Does anyone here have any insight about Scorpio man/ Aries woman relationships? I really need help here. I would just call her myself and try to talk things out but I’m afraid of saying something else that will just make her more disappointed with me.
I have certainly been saying all the wrong things to her lately. I have really made her upset and I thought that I was just being honest. What can I do to reassure her that I still care for her and want her?
gbridges, Can you update us on what happened with your romance? It's been a year now since you posted and I'm very curious. Do you lose her or do you still have something special together?
Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 6:19 pm Post subject: First date!
I am an aries woman who has met a scorpio man on a dating site, we have been chatting on and off for a few months now and have arranged to go on date (i asked him of course!).
I am excited about meeting him but also slightly crapping my pants! The fact he's scorpio scares me a bit as i know how intense they are!
Any tips or advice would be so appreciated!
Joined: 14 Jan 2006 Posts: 13051 Location: United States of America
Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 7:19 pm Post subject: Re: First date!
breezy wrote:
I am an aries woman who has met a scorpio man on a dating site, we have been chatting on and off for a few months now and have arranged to go on date (i asked him of course!).
I am excited about meeting him but also slightly crapping my pants! The fact he's scorpio scares me a bit as i know how intense they are!
Any tips or advice would be so appreciated!
My tip for you is never meet him or get anything started. If it scares you now, it will horrify you later. I'm being very sincere.
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