Why do some girls enjoy Anal sex?

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Why do some girls enjoy Anal sex?

Postby JudyX on Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:14 pm

A question....

I was wondering what a girl might like about Anal sex? From what I can tell it can be a bit painful but still some girls go crazy about it, if it hurts why do it? JudyX

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Postby animallover15 on Mon Nov 05, 2007 10:35 pm

It doesnt have to be painful. It can be very erotic. But if the guy insists at going hammer and tong, causing you pain then he really isnt doing it for your satisfaction!!!
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Postby eyelash on Mon Nov 05, 2007 11:01 pm

I think it does hurt. At least a bit. But pain is at times enjoyable if you're very turned on.

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Postby fancy 23 on Tue Nov 06, 2007 1:40 am

Maybe I just got the right guy. Everything was done slow over months. Now I can lube and take him at will. I like it because its so naughty. Only bad girls do Anal! Once you can take him deep and hard, try using a vibrator at the same time. My guy says my orgasm squeezes him so tight he wants to orgasm right away.

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Postby G-man on Tue Nov 06, 2007 3:51 am

Anal - sex issues aside...wouldn't prolong Anal sex lead to your Anal muscle (spinster) elasicity problems.??

I mean, it would loosen your Anal muscles over time?? not sure!
But if it did or does, this would cause problems in old age of not being able to hold in a stool if needed in public.
In laymans terms, you would S*** your pants in public. Or if treking, you would need to be in close vincinity to a public toilet - not always possible.

The body bowels health is extermely important to you - just ask any women who has suffered from irritable bowel syndrome -( I'm not saying Anal sex causes this).

Anyway, why risk unnecessary bowel tension problems just for Anal sex.

Nothing beats a nice wet warm pussy!

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Postby jacch on Sat Nov 10, 2007 10:39 pm

my girl friend wants to try some Anal ex, but im worried i might hert her. can any one give me some tips on of to do it right?

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Postby AGirlCalledKill on Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:02 am

To the person above hello!

If your gf wants to try Anal with you has she don it before or does she maybe use a vibrator on herself? In either case she'd probabaly be quite confident about letting you know what she wanted. However if youre both inexperienced you just need lots of thickish lube and to stimulate and stretch her bum abit before penetration using fingers or a small vibrator and then just take things slowly. Doggy or woman on top are the best positions and when you first do it its best to let the woman be in contol, let her push against you.

But actually what this thread is about erm yeah if you totally relax and go slow Anal can be pain free. However i think part of the attraction is the pain element and it can also a very submissive thing for a woman to do

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Postby kanya on Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:41 pm

Thats what I done....I used a small virator on my ass to get used to it. Anal was something I wanted to try and found the small vib very helpfull. That was a few years ago now and now when in the mood can enjoy Anal with another girl. I have only used vibrator there and not been brave enough for a StrapOn...ouch!

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Postby Terence on Sun Nov 11, 2007 5:59 pm

It´s great if u haven´t try it, do it?
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why?

Postby Donny on Mon Nov 12, 2007 7:36 pm

why do women like it? :roll:

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Postby 80sDiva on Mon Nov 12, 2007 8:45 pm

Ooohh...well...

It's a great "full" feeling...and the "dirty" part of it is also a turn-on.

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Postby bcause on Wed Nov 14, 2007 5:22 pm

because it's a way of being sub miss've.
that sets the `mental-stage` for the
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Postby mande on Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:22 am

You keep asking "why do they like it?'
What you don't realize, is that there are nerve endings there that tie in with and give sexual feelings with her vagina.
That is in addition to all the stuff mentioned above about being dominated, etc.
Plus, the girls I've been with who liked it, said it gave them the feeling of being "full", especially when there was a vibrator inside their pussy, which by the way, feels incredible for the man!
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Why do they like it?

Postby RixTex15 on Sat Oct 11, 2008 1:16 pm

Because of the MAJOR orgasms my wife has, that's why she loves it! Use lots of lube, go really slow and listen to her directions...........it's wonderful.

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Postby Talerunner on Sun Oct 12, 2008 10:44 am

In my experience, why some women enjoy Anal sex has two sides of it.

First, it is the mental aspect. It is a great way of feeling submissive and giving your partner pleasure, I recon just like oral sex, but dirtier and more on the taboo side of the norm.

Second, the nerv concentrations in the vagina differ radically from women to women. I noticed that some has got a very sensitive "bottom wall", that is, the opposite side of where the g-spot is. This wall can of course also be easily stimulated through Anal sex. That, in combination with the mental aspect, probably is why some women just LOVE it. imho.
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