sex being dirty

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fee
 

sex being dirty

Postby fee on Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:22 pm

As long as I can remember being intimate - or even affectionate (such as hugs or compliments)- has made me uncomfortable. I've had orgasams with guys before but afterwards I always feel dirty and ashamed. Because of this, I've never been able to have sex. I have no idea what's wrong with me- I know sex is a natural act. I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on how to get over this. I've had advice to see a professional but I really can't afford that. :?

Just posted this on a whim, thanks to anybody who can help.

Genie
 

Postby Genie on Wed Dec 22, 2004 5:20 pm

You need to know why you feel its dirty, did your parents make you feel it was dirty after all some older generation were taught that sex was dirty and should only be used to have children.

It a pleasure man is the only one that needs to be aroused to have sex animals do it at set times of the year to procreate.

Try finding out when you first thought it was dirty then you will be able to start working on it

Good luck


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