4 months ago 18th Jul 10:51
Despite the fact that a lot of people assume I liked doing shows as a kid, because of my job these days, I actually loved playing games such as Famous Five and going down to the park and going down the slide and that slide led to another time and so you had to jump onto the climbing frame which was a forest. There was a lot of role-play when I was younger, mainly pretending to we explorers. I wasnt a massive drawer because I wasnt very good at it!
I think they are and I dont think its mean or anything like that but it feels like there are so many dangers out there and the last thing you want is for them to get hurt and I think that parents need to realise that they are going to get hurt but you cant wrap them up in cotton wool and stop them from getting hurt but that arming them with information and skills to prevent them from getting hurt is much better.
There is so much scary stuff out there at the moment that we are scared of letting them out when we just need to relax a bit more; as long as children are supervised you can take a lot of harm out of the situations. Obviously dont let them climb up a 14ft tree but do let them explore a lot more and maybe climb smaller trees so they can see what its like to be a bird up there but I think parents these days, because of their business and because of all the different dangers out there, have become a lot more over-bearing and I think we could all do with relaxing a little bit and realising that children need a little more space and unstructured playtime.
I just let them get on with it, even though it is quite hard not to say; No, the rules must be . but I think that by giving children a few leading questions or a few items it helps them along, so youre helping them play, but not necessarily telling them what they can and cant do.
So if youre in the garden and theyre saying; Mummy, Im bored, Im bored! then you could say to them; Why dont you go and work out what the goblins at the end of the garden want for their tea? then get them to go and collect lots of things and make a big feast up for them, that leaves them to go and wander and then perhaps come up with other games, such as how many worms they can get in a bucket, and I think that by giving them leading questions and taking yourselves out of the situations, you can really let their imaginations run wild.
I think that research that has already been done supports that claim I personally think that every activity has a time and place, and that children shouldnt necessarily be banned from watching television because there is some educational stuff on there. The difference between good and bad is when theyre watching TV, or playing computer games for half an hour on an evening to when theyre doing it from morning till night on a weekend because mum and dad are too busy with household chores.
I think the best way to develop social skills is by being social, and I know from experience that my little girl would much rather play with her friends than watch telly. If I was to ask her whether she wanted to watch TV or invite her friends over to play, she would choose her friends every time. The problem with the TV is that its an easy way to occupy your kids, you flick a switch and you have them quiet for hours whilst theyre glued to the screen.
With the free play initiative, it encourages as well as advises how to let children just have a hour a day to themselves to play and learn the skills they need for their lives, it does them the world of good.
It sounds odd but watch it anyway! A girl and a guy get electrocuted and swap bodies, its got Martin Freeman and Rachael Stirling in it as well as myself and Marshall Lancaster. Martin Freemans character goes missing and we set out to find him. Its a comedy drama which is fun as well as being fantastic! The director also directed Spooks, so its very clever and something well worth watching out for.
I suppose I do but it seems that every part I play goes on for years! Boy Meets Girl is probably one of the shortest ones. Cutting it went on for five series and Im also going back to Waterloo Road, you feel like you become part of the company and stay with them for quite a while.
Im going back to Waterloo Road in August and Im also doing a play at the Grand Theatre in Leeds for a week which is a play of monologues with Prunella Scales and I am absolutely terrified, but thats essentially why I wanted to do it because its so rare to get a job now which makes you really nervous!
My favourite painter would be my daughter Tallulah.
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